Before you blow up my PM's, I'm talking about cigarettes, not cigaweed. I have been with my woman for the past 8 months now. I have dated for many years and I have seen some sh!t. This woman is different. She actually cares about me. She likes who I am. We like each others company A LOT. I never saw myself with anyone long term, but she is everything I ever wanted in a woman and more. The drawback? She smokes. 4 or 5 cigarettes a day, but still, she smokes. I told her it bothered me a few months ago, but yet she did nothing. Time went on and we became more attached. Today I told her that I can't stand her breath (or taste) for hours after she has a cancer stick. That and I told her I can't see myself longterm with anyone that smokes. I really hurt her I guess. Didn't want to see me tonight. She wanted to be alone and think about her "bad habits". She knows smoking is bad, she knows it bothers me, but I don't know if she can actually quit. Besides the smoking thing, she is the best thing that has ever happened to me and I have been through some sh!t. She has never lied to me, nor have I to her. Do I believe that she will quit? She's been smoking for about 10 years.
I have met more than a dozen smokers that have "quit" only to see them smoking again within a year. Only one person I have EVER met had quit smoking, 5 years and going, and he still wakes up every morning wanting a drag... it's sad what nicotine can do to you.
Your thoughts? Do I walk away or give her a chance?